What exactly do men find attractive… attractive enough to find a woman completely irresistible, and how do you keep this even long into a long-term relationship?

Have you ever wondered why men are so quick to dismiss a woman over the smallest things?

I want you to listen to to my answers to these questions because I’ve had the privilege of dating the most beautiful women and I’ve had relationships with the most irresistible women.

I’ve been in “circle” relationships (relationships with two or more bisexual woman) one on one relationships, open relationships, closed relationships and every notch in between relationships.

Yeah, I was that guy… that idiot jerk.

I’m not saying this to “brag”, but I say it so that you will listen to my answers below.

By the way, no matter how beautiful or amazing any of these women were, no matter how intelligent, no matter how fun ==> unless she knew and applied what I’m about to show you on how to be completely IRRESISTIBLE to men, she dealt with the men pulling away from her, not wanting to commit, getting emotional and leaving.

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1. Sense Of Humor

There isn’t one guy I know of who doesn’t appreciate a woman who laughs at his stupid jokes simply out of a sensitive humorous bone.

When a woman laughs, she shoots a beam of light that comes across a guy’s face… and when men hear loud laughter, say, from a woman across the room for another man, it has the power to make him jealous… and want that laughter to be for him.

Humor is “childlike” energy and is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m A Catch!”

Men feel this on a gut level.

One of the things you’ll figure out about me and my teachings is that I’m not talking about faking a sense of humor… when you fake a sense of humor, without consciously knowing it you throw red flags.

That’s why it’s important to be genuine, and is it that hard to be genuinely sensitive to humor?

A woman who laughs out of a need to gain approval and validation is easy to mark and turns a woman from irresistible to a manipulator.

No.

A woman who is really sensitive to humor is a great find for a man.

 

2. Youthfulness Is Not An Age

This goes along with #1 because it comes from a playful heart... and when I say youthfulness, I don’t mean age.

In fact it couldn’t be further from physical age believe it or not.

I mean a state of being and living.

Now it might be difficult to get this through your head because women in our society are taught over and over again that if they’re not young, they don’t stand a chance.

NOT TRUE.

Youth is an ENERGY and you can always spot a woman who’s had it “ruff from the world” and who’s become DEAD and skeptical inside, because she has men dispersing away from her, being old, cynical, unbelieving and cold inside is like spraying yourself with “death perfume”.

But you can always see a woman who is youthful and fresh and has kept their sense of self separate from the negativity of other people’s opinions.

A child playing on the play ground hasn’t been burdened by the world’s “adulthood” yet.

All she cares about is PLAYING… in the sand, swinging on the swings and having fun THIS moment.

She is fresh, she doesn’t hold onto the past and she’s not living in the future.

I’m always amazed when I see 18 year old girls who feel 40, and then when I see 40 year old women who feel 18.

 

3. Body Language

Body language is 55% of ALL communication between men and women (vocal tone 38%, language 7%).

Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, arch in the lower back allowing weight to release off the upper-back and fall onto the lower, shoulders and upper back relaxed, chest present, chin up… (there’s more to this having more to do with “energy”, but I can’t get into this right now).

A smile shows a man you’re open to him on a gut level and no smile will show him you’re “untouchable” and a cold ruthless bitch… It just depends on what energy you want to project and who you want to attract, because different men are attracted to different energies.

Body language is like a person’s “energetic blood pulse” to the world saying if they feel good about themselves or like a ship wreck or nervous or excited and feeling amazing.

You may hate her (I’m not her biggest fan either), but you have to admit that Paris Hilton has awesome body language.

If you can leave the hatred at the door and LEARN from her, I highly recommend checking her out.

 

4. Emotional Expression

Insecure men are repulsed by the emotions of a natural, red-blooded, feminine woman… but confident men are attracted.

Remember, this isn’t about faking… like tantrum, emotional outburst etc. etc.

But rather just allowing your “feminine nature” to flow through you without repressing it.

And if you are a woman, make no mistake you ARE feminine, and if you’re not you’ll want to be because this is one of the most attractive things to high quality men.

I know it sounds weird, but go with me here.

Emotion is spontaneous.

And the unemotional man is attracted to its opposite, it’s POLAR opposite… to the emotional yin feminine by the force of magnetism.

 

5. Patience

It is extremely RARE for a man to find a woman who is patient.

I’m serious, men are ridiculously grateful when they find and have a woman who is patient because many women are kind of A.D.D.

Yeah it’s cute to some guys (I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this) but lets face it, most guys are kind of slow.

And just like in elementary school how there is a slow kids program where the teachers are very patient with the children in that class, the same kind of goes with men…

When a woman is A.D.D. with a guy and impatient with him, it turns him off… and in many cases it’s the final nail in the coffin.

What I’m talking about is authentic, compassionate patience that comes from being relaxed.

Men ,the yang masculine (my weird way of telling between men and woman) is path or goal-oriented… and when a man finally finds a woman who relaxes with his path whatever that may be, it’s “two thumbs up”.

This is the very first step to what I call “Manhandling”.

 

6. Self-Care And Beauty

Beauty, healthy hair, good looking skin, makeup, healthy weight; these are the superficial things men adore.

These are the more OUTWARD expressions of femininity.

A past girlfriend once told me “there is NO such thing as an ugly woman, only a lazy one.”

Now, where I think most women go wrong in this department is putting ALL of their weight on physical beauty.

And when you’re putting all of your weight on one leg and that “leg” is weak and you don’t look very nice one day, your entire self-image is destroyed.

And when they look particularly great one day, your entire self-image is built around it.

Can we say unhealthy?

This is not good because you become a ROLLERCOASTER.

Here’s what I believe is needed ===> Balance, balance, balance.

Put some weight onto the other leg of the INNER femininity, because the fact is the inner is just as important as the outer.

Beauty is only the most superficial, outward expression, but with that said it plays an important part none the less.

Simply spend the time to get it handled and then release it, make it a relaxed event, not an obsession.

 

7. Intelligence

You are VERY intelligent, you just might not realize it yet.

But if there is one reason that could get you to START seeing yourself as intelligent, it’s that you are here right now trying to better your love life, and that is an extremely intelligent thing to do, and it’s a very rare thing.

When I say the word intelligence, I don’t mean book intellect or street smarts.

I mean the ability to be CREATIVE in the moment.

I’m talking about a woman who is PRESENT and “here now”.

You can look into her eyes and tell that she is with you right now, not zoning off into space or thinking about something in her head.

She responds to the moment… and this is an ability that every women has.

A woman who is “with” a man is extremely attractive and desireble to a man.

Unfortunately, us men don’t get to experience this women all that often, so when she does come, it’s no thing falling for a woman like that.

 

8. Not Needing But Wanting

Guys can smell out a needy, clinging girl which usually causes them to run the other direction.

And they can also sense a girl who WANTS rather than needs.

Being needed will stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good about himself, but there’s a great possibility he’ll eventually freak out and run.

Being wanted, on the other hand, will make him feel even better, but he won’t run… he’ll feel compelled (unless he’s a serious dumb ass).

A girl who has the self-confidence enough to want, to desire, and not be attached to those wants is pure gold.

Then adventure, playfulness and challenge come naturally.

There’s a fine line between being a slave to needing, or being free to want.

 

9. Nurturance

A man wants to be independent, but likes to feel that he is taken care of as well.

They say that “every man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mommy.”

Nuturance is one of the most basic female instincts… and most guys DO want that little tiny bit of mommy in a girlfriend… but not too much or both you and him will probably get annoyed!

And just like #8, this is nurturance out of want not need… a very fine line indeed.

 

10. Sexually Adventurous

Sexual repression makes people very, very… VERY angry. Nuf’ said.

 

11. Love

A woman filled with love in her heart is one of the most beautiful things.

She is fearless and hatred falls away.

A woman who sees the world through loving eyes has no enemies… even if people dislike her.

Love is not weak, it is POWER.

Love comes out of relaxation and when that restless need for approval falls away.

You just need to know HOW to control love so that you don’t lose yourself to it completely.

 

12. Integrity

This is potentially the most difficult thing to describe to you, but I’m going to try anyway.

A woman who has real values and sticks up for herself is like a beacon of light.

Many of the gals I have consulted with are pushed and pulled by the wind at every moment.

They have very little security in life and they worry continuously. Is this you?

If you know how to control this insecurity, it can actually be a GOOD thing (weird I know).

But usually she has no stability to her at all and she lives life in what I call the “Soap Opera Matrix”.

Integrity is what creates some sanity. It’s one of the few things you come into the world with, and its one of the easiest things to take for granted and sell for sparkly looking toys.

Security is good, But if you build too many walls around yourself and try to become “all powerful” you lose your delicacy, your female beauty. I’ve seen this happen to quite a few women.

It’s a delicate balance.

Here’s a simple list I suggest you start with (and I follow myself):

 

a. Your health. Your mind, body and soul come first. Without you there is nothing else so you must be kept in good shape and happy.

b. Love. Love is one of the highest values. Love comes BEFORE pleasure although most people always reverse them. Ever ask yourself “Is it love or lust?” They can’t tell because pleasure has always come first.You must know how to bring LOVE to the front.

c. Freedom. Never be a slave to anybody, even if you feel like you want to. You are a free being, and most men want this in a woman.

d. Pleasure. Celebration comes naturally after all of these things are taken care of. Most people try to put pleasure as their number one. They will abuse their bodies to have it, weaken their integrity to have it and sell their soul to have it. Most people are not in pursuit of happiness, they are in pursuit of PLEASURE… but that pleasure is always accompanied by pain. There’s an endless rollercoaster of pleasure/pain when it becomes number one. However, pleasure comes naturally when it comes after some other more important things… like having the “know how” to sustain a long LASTING relationship (if you have my book than you know exactly what I’m talking about).

Don’t expect this stuff to come over night.

It’s just a matter of how much garbage a gal has had to handle in her life.

This is just the tip of the iceberg.

You need to know what to AVOID to get a man to want to come closer to you.

For more on this, you got to get your hands on my special report “Relationship Rehab” to find out the 5 addictions that push a guy away.

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OK, have an awesome day and I’ll talk to you later!

With honor,

Brandon