What do men find unbelievably attractive in a woman…attractive enough to see her as completely irresistible…and how do you keep this even long into a relationship?

Have you ever had a man lose that “special feeling” for you over what seemed like the smallest things…or even nothing at all?

Well those small things, to a man, are actually very big.

After years of personal research with thousands of men and women, I’ve boiled down and refined what causes men to feel that SPARK of love for a woman.

I’ve been in “circle” relationships (relationships with two or more bisexual woman) one on one relationships, open relationships, closed relationships and every notch in between relationships.

Yeah, I was that guy…that idiot jerk.

I’m not saying this to “brag” or even that I’m proud of my past, but I say it so that you listen to my answers below.

By the way, no matter how beautiful, intelligent or amazing any of these women were  ==> unless she knew and applied what I’m about to show you to be completely IRRESISTIBLE, she dealt with men pulling away from her, not wanting to commit, getting emotional and leaving.

And when I show you the “secrets” to virtually hypnotize men to love you in my free downloadable cure “The Love Potion Spell Book”, men will be begging to get to know you on a deeper level.

But now, let’s get to it.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #1: Sense Of Humor

There isn’t one guy I know of who doesn’t appreciate a woman who laughs at his stupid jokes simply out of a sensitive humorous bone.

When a woman laughs, she shoots a beam of light that comes across a guy’s face… and when men hear loud laughter, say, from a woman across the room for another man, it has the power to make him jealous… and want that laughter to be for him.

Humor is “childlike” energy and is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m A Catch!”

Men feel this on a gut level.

I’m not talking about faking a sense of humor… when you “fake” a sense of humor, without consciously knowing it you throw red flags.

That’s why it’s important to be genuine, and is it that hard to be genuinely sensitive to humor

A woman who laughs out of insecurity is easy for men to spot and turns a woman from irresistible to every other woman.

But, a woman who is really sensitive to humor is an amazing find for a man that all men NEED to have.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #2: “Youthfulness” Is Not Age

This goes along with #1 because it comes from a playful heart...and when I say youthfulness, I don’t mean age.

In fact it couldn’t be further from physical age!

I mean a state of mind.

Now it’s going to be difficult to get this through your head because women in our society are taught over and over and over again that if they’re not young, they don’t stand a chance.

NOT TRUE.

Youth is an ENERGY and you can always spot a woman who’s had it “ruff from the world” and who’s become DEAD and skeptical inside, because she has men dispersing away from her, being old, cynical, unbelieving and cold inside is like spraying yourself with “death perfume”.

But you can always see a woman who is youthful and fresh and has kept their sense of self separate from the negativity of other people’s opinions.

A child playing on the play ground hasn’t been burdened by the world’s “adulthood” yet.

All she cares about is PLAYING…in the sand, swinging on the swings and having fun THIS moment.

She is fresh, she doesn’t hold onto the past and she’s not living in the future.

I’m always amazed when I see 18 year old girls who feel 40, and then when I see 40 year old women who feel 18.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #3: Body Language

Behavioral psychologists says body language is 55% of ALL communication between men and women (vocal tone 38%, language 7%).

Here’s the “magic formula” for your body language.

Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, arch in the lower back allowing weight to release off the upper-back and fall onto the lower, shoulders and upper back relaxed, chest present, chin up… (there’s more to this having more to do with “energy”, but I can’t get into this right now).

A smile shows a man you’re open to him on a gut level and no smile will show him you’re “untouchable”… and a cold ruthless bitch.

Body language is like a person’s “energetic pulse” to the world saying if they feel amazing about themselves or like a shipwreck.

You may hate her (and I’m not her biggest fan either), but you have to admit that Paris Hilton has awesome body language.

If you can leave the hatred at the door and LEARN from her, I HIGHLY recommend checking her attractive body language secrets out.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #4: Emotional Expression

Most insecure men I’ve met over the years are repulsed by the emotions of a natural, red-blooded, feminine woman… but most confident men I know are attracted.

Remember, this isn’t about “faking”… like tantrums, emotional outbursts etc. etc.

But rather just allow your “feminine nature” to flow through you without repressing it.

And if you ARE a woman, make no mistake you ARE feminine, and if you’re not you’ll want to be because this is one of the most powerfully attractive things to high quality men.

I know it sounds weird, but go with me here.

And the less emotional man is attracted to his opposite, his POLAR opposite…to the emotional yin feminine (you) magnetically.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #5: Patience

It is extremely RARE for a man to find a woman who is “patient”.

I’m serious, most men I know are ridiculously grateful when they find a woman who is patient because let’s face it, most women are seriously A.D.D.

Yeah it’s cute to some guys (I find it hilarious and love to make light-hearted fun of women like this) but lets face it, most guys are kind of slow.

And just like in elementary school how there is a “special kids program” where the teachers are very patient with the children in that class, the same kind of goes with men…

When a woman is impatient with him, it turns him off…and in many cases it’s the final nail in the coffin.

What I’m talking about is authentic, compassionate patience that comes from relaxing.

Men, the yang masculine (my weird way of telling between men and woman) is path or goal-oriented…and when a man finally finds a woman who relaxes with his path whatever that may be, it’s “two thumbs up” for him.

This is the very first step to what I call the “Manhandling Formula” (which you can find in my free cure “The Love Potion Spell Book”).

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #6: Self-Care And Beauty

Beauty, healthy hair, good looking skin, makeup, healthy weight; these are the superficial things men adore.

These are the more OUTWARD expressions of femininity.

A past girlfriend once told me “there is NO such thing as an ugly woman, only a lazy one.”

Now, where most women go wrong in this department is putting TO MUCH weight on physical beauty.

And when you’re putting all of your weight on one leg and that “leg” is weak and you don’t look pretty one day, your entire self-image is destroyed.

Can we say unhealthy?

This is not good because you become a ROLLERCOASTER.

Here’s what I believe is needed ===> Balance, balance, balance.

Put some weight onto the other leg of the INNER femininity, because the fact is the inner is just as important as the outer.

I  have gorgeous supermodel female friends who agree that beauty is only one piece.

Beauty is only the most superficial, outward expression, but with that said it plays an important part.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #7: Intelligence

You are VERY intelligent, you just might not realize it yet.

But if there is one reason that could get you to START seeing yourself as intelligent, it’s that you are here right now trying to better your love life, and that is an extremely intelligent thing to do, and it’s very rare.

When I say the word “intelligence”, I don’t mean book intellect or street smarts.

I mean the ability to be CREATIVE.

I’m talking about a woman who is PRESENT and “here now”.

You can look into her eyes and tell that she is with you right now, not zoning off into space or thinking about something in her head.

She responds to the moment… and this is an ability that every women has.

A woman who is “with” a man is extremely attractive and desirable to a man.

Unfortunately, most men will never get to experience this kind of women, so when she does come, well let’s just say, have you ever heard of those stories of guys proposing in the first 3 months?

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #8: Not “Needing” But Wanting

Guys can smell out a needy, clingy girl, which usually causes them to run the other direction.

But they can also sense a girl who WANTS rather than needs.

Being needed will stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good about himself, but there’s an even greater possibility he’ll eventually freak out and run.

Being wanted, on the other hand, makes a man feel even better, plus he won’t run… he’ll feel compelled.

I only know this by talking to thousands of guys about this.

A girl who has the self-confidence enough to want, to desire, and not be attached is pure gold.

Then adventure, playfulness and challenge come naturally.

But there’s a fine line between being a slave to needing, or being free to want.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #9: Nurturance

Most men wants independence, but men also like to feel taken care of as well.

You just have to do it in the right way.

An enlightened Indian mystic said that “a man’s life is a journey to find the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.”

And the beauty is nuturance is one of the most basic female primal instincts… and most guys want that little tiny bit of mommy in a girlfriend… but not too much or you risk annoying him and causing him to pull away.

And just like #8, nurture out of want not need… a very fine line indeed.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #10: Sexually Adventurous

Sexual repression makes people very, very… VERY angry.

Scientists, presidents, poets, hot guys and musicians all agree.  Nuf’ said.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #11: Love

A woman filled with love in her heart is one of the most beautiful things to a man.

She is fearless and hatred and fear of men in heart falls away.

Love is not weak, it is POWER.

Love comes out of relaxation and when that restless need for approval falls away.

You just need to know HOW to control love so that you don’t lose yourself to it completely and get hurt.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #12: Integrity

This is probably the most difficult “secret” I have to describe to you today, but I’m going to anyway.

A woman who has real values and sticks up for herself is like a beacon of light to men.

Many women I’ve coached over the phone are pushed and pulled by the wind at every moment, and I have to sit down with them and get them thinking of what they stand up for and believe in, even til’ death.

They have very little security in life and constantly worry.

If you know how to control insecurity, it can actually be a GOOD thing (weird I know but I’ll explain later).

But most women have no stability and live life in what I call the “Soap Opera Matrix”.

Integrity creates some sanity. It’s one of the few things you come into the world with, and its one of the easiest things to take for granted and sell for sparkly looking toys.

Security is good, but if you build too many walls around yourself and try to become “all powerful” you lose your delicacy, your female beauty and then you become unattractive to men. I’ve seen this happen to too many women.

It’s a delicate balance.

Here’s a simple list I suggest you start with (and I follow myself):

a. Your health. Your mind, body and soul come FIRST. Without you there is nothing else so you must be kept in good shape and happy.

b. Love. Love is one of the highest values. Love comes BEFORE pleasure although most people always reverse them. Ever ask yourself “Is it love or lust?” They can’t tell because pleasure has always come first. You must know how to bring LOVE to the front.

c. Freedom. Never be a slave to anybody, even if you feel like you want to. You are a free being, and most men want this in a woman.

d. Pleasure. Celebration comes naturally after all of these things are taken care of. Most people try to put pleasure as their number one. They will abuse their bodies, weaken their integrity and sell their soul to have it. Most people are not in pursuit of happiness, they are in pursuit of PLEASURE…but that pleasure is always accompanied by pain. There’s an endless rollercoaster of pleasure/pain when it becomes number one. However, pleasure comes naturally when it comes after other more important things… like having the “know how” to sustain a long LASTING relationship (if you have my book, you know exactly what I’m talking about).

Don’t expect this stuff to come over night.

This is just the tip of the iceberg.

You need to know what to AVOID to get a man to want to come closer to you.

(If you haven’t already yet, check out my special cure “The Love Potion Spell Book” to find out how to make a man insatiably in love with you using “secret evil hypnotic love spells”).

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OK, have an awesome day and I’ll talk to you soon

With honor,

Brandon