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…Rather Than Going To Your Friends And Family For Help…Or Trying To Fix Things All On Your Own…As You Read on You’re Going To Find Out How You Too Can Get Brandon’s Expert Relationship And Man Advice For Your Personal Toughest Situations, Discreetly And Conveniently Over The Phone…

Dear Friend,

I’d like to ask you a few question and try to answer them as honestly as you can:

• Has a man ever become distant and cold in a relationship so you went to your friends for help…they were really understanding and made you feel better by saying things like He’s a jerk” or “You should leave him, you can do better” but deep down you knew he was a good guy and you were causing the problem and you didn’t know what you were doing wrong, and they didn’t seem to understand?

Here’s another one:

• Do you ever feel like men just don’t find you attractive…or lose attraction for you after being in a relationship with you and you know it’s something more than just your “looks” but you don’t know what to do?

Here’s another:

• Have you ever been with a man who started withdrawing to the point of him telling you “I need a break”…you REALLY needed somebody to talk who KNEW exactly the right thing to do, but you didn’t know anyone like that so you ran to your friends or family members…but there was nothing they could do but tell you “Don’t worry. Everything will be fine.” or “There’s plenty of fish in the see.”  But things weren’t and it ended up ending?

Or:

• Have you ever been confused by a guy’s behaviors and didn’t know WHY he was being careless, thoughtless, or unpredictable so you thought you’d try to get the answers out of other guys… but they couldn’t explain it clearly and left you more confused than ever?

We’re often SURROUNDED by men and women who have good intention and truly want to help us with a relationship situation, but the sad fact is good intentions alone don’t solve man problems.

Not to mention they have the same exact issues as us and often times worse.

I’ve had many woman friends who have had issues trying to get a guy to open up or get him in love again after becoming increasingly distant who go to their girlfriends for help who have the exact same problems.

That bugs me…

Let me ask you this.

Have you ever wanted to date a man, maybe you hadn’t even talked to him yet out of fear, and you didn’t know what to do…so you went straight to your friends for help and they told you things like:

“Just tell him how you feel” or

“Bring him a gift” or

“If you play aloof with him, he’ll come to you” or

“Just ignore him.  he will see you and comes and talks to you!”

Let me ask you something, and let’s be honest here.

How often has this worked out for you?

If you’re like most women, when you stop and think about it, you’ll realize that it has not…

And there’s a very simple explanation why it never does…

Why Friends And Family Can’t Help You With Your Relationship And Dating Problems With Men

We love our friends and family, and we often welcome their advice when we have a problem with a lover.

But there’s a big problem.

Albert Einstein, one of the most intelligent people of the 20th century said…

“A Problem Can’t Be Solved On The Same Level It Was Created.”

That’s a fancy way of saying that if your friends have the same problems as you, they can’t help you.

I wish it were different, but we’re talking about the laws of physics here.

Usually there’s a lot of confusion in tough sexual and love situations and rather than guiding you through to a HIGHER level, friends and family tend to keep us at the SAME level.

If somebody is at the same level as us, they can’t teach us anything higher…they can’t give us a better perspective on our situation.

You being in one area of a dumb and your friend being in another area of the dump may get two different perspective of the dump, but you don’t have an areal view of the entire wasteland.

And when you start taking someone else’s advice who has the same level of awareness you, you can actually make things worse.

You need someone who understands what’s going on, and you need to talk to them directly with their full attention on you.

Sometimes there is only so much a book can do for you. Sometimes there only so much hope watching a hopeful romantic movie can give you!

You need something, someone who can give you the actions that are needed for your specific situation.

Someone who can give you perspective on what the hell is going on in your situation.

That’s why began offering phone coaching sessions.

My coaching sessions are about helping you to UNDERSTAND your entire situation, whether you have been in a relationship for 4 months, 3 years, you are just getting to know a special man and he is confusing you to no end, or know about a special someone but can’t even get yourself to meet him.

And then HEAL the situation.

I want to bring you the awareness and the knowledge that you need to go in fearlessly.

And then when you have the awareness, I want to give you the ACTION you want to take after.

Brandon-

In appreciation of your response-
I just wanted to tell you that your perspective on women and love are damn real- and I have probably read at least 10 books on this shit over the past month- my sister is a licensed psychologist in CA and she doesn’t get it like you do. I commend you on your refreshing impowering yet REAL vision.

M.

Here are a just a FEW things I coach with in relationships:

• Why men pull away and become distant physically, emotionally and energetically and how to change this energy to get a man to WANT you and give his heart to you like you are the last woman on earth for him.
• How to transform a dwindling connection with a man you know are supposed to be with to a deep connection with him to where he sees you two as “soul mates” and are meant to be together.

• The right way to “speak” to a man that makes him not only want to open up and want to form a deep, intimate connection with you, but also makes him see you as an attractive, desirable woman he MUST keep.

• How to get an uncontrollable arguing man in relationships back to loving, respecting and giving his 110% appreciation to you.

• How to get a needy, clingy and emotional man, to “man up” and transform into the dream man you’ve always wanted and never had (you’ll be so surprised by his turn around that you won’t know what to do with all of the extra time you were using stressing over the situation).

• How to get a lying man to start telling you truth and become 100% loyal, intimate and committed to you and adapt the philosophy “You and me against the world”.

• How to handle yourself around a highly attractive boyfriend in a way that gets this kind of man HIGHLY attracted and in love with YOU… even if you have low self-esteem and even if you are “average look”.

• How to handle a man who has cheated on you, how to decide whether to keep him or not and how to make sure it NEVER happens again by getting him to see you as his “soul mate”.

• Understanding the “secret” language of “man communication” and using it to create a connection you can feel completely secure in.

Brandon- Ah- exactly- precisely- I sincerely want to thank you – thank you for being a down to earth intelligent and kind soul- you have no reason to help us gals- besides love. I have been through plenty of other break ups and relationships prior to this one- and as you so blatantly and clearly describe- mindless recklessness with tons of layers built upon each other wanting validation but thinking i want love , etc etc= you pretty much describe to a tee the way I have been in relationships in the past.

You wrote about my current situation with my ex- and I was wondering how the hell did you freaken know exactly — every detail that has occured in the past week and a half? I had already begun my meditations on my heart several weeks ago per your advice- and I have come to this amazingly peaceful , calm, and loving place , unneedy, unanxious, – and it is a fucking gem of an idea ! Brilliant! It was so fucking awesome to then actually be able to share this with my ex-
i did not say a word a first- and you are right – exactly- I had to carefully relax and only come from my heart and explain to him the realizations i have been going through and show him that i love him. His mouth dropped when i told him i loved him unconditionally- and that upon my meditations and relxations and simply unplugging of all the bullshit- that my heart is full of unconditional love . He said something i have never known before- he said- “no one besides my family has ever said they love me like that”… I explained how fear, anger, guilt (which is what characterized me when we were togther) cannot exist simultaneously with love- hence my inablitliy to be there and love him throughout our relationship- and indeed like you said- his standoffness did not diminish one bit- and his gut is leery and keeping him locked up tight stilll but even so-
my love was clear obvious and I carefully made no danger to his freedom , which he does love right now…
And- as you predicted- exactly- about a week and half ago- I reached the calmness, relaxed presently good feeling place and this simulataneously caused all neediness and impatience for him to disapear. This disappearance- then quite clearly gave him a somewhat safer feeling about approaching me which lead to the above conversation over dinner–. I really was not thinking in myu heart that he was ever going to approach me .
You rock !
And it is great that we are apart and he doesnt just want to take me back right quick- because nothing would change- and I love the way i feel right now= with or without him-Thanks so much Brandon!
D.