If you could take all of the perfect body language of women who men find incredibly attractive just because of their body language from across the planet and put it into one person, Paris Hilton is one of the closest you’re going to come to that.

Now, there’s been women who have given the female sex a “better name” (like Susan B. Anthony and Angela Davis for instance), but one thing Paris Hilton can give you is beautiful body language that is HIGHLY attractive to most men, and these are things that don’t have to do with a woman’s physical looks either.

However if you don’t take the lessons that she has to offer seriously and to heart, becoming attractive to men is going to be an uphill struggle until you start learning these important and fundamental lessons about what NATURALLY attracts men at their CORE.

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#1. The Posture That Arouses Male Interest 99% Of The Time

Have you ever wanted to meet a man you were interested in, were deeply attracted to and wanted really badly, but when the time came to make a move you didn’t feel confident or competent enough to approach and make it happen… You wanted HIM to do something about it, but it never happened?

Or have you ever been with a man who you were really into and were really connecting with on very intimate levels, but HE wasn’t feeling it as much as you were?

One of the keys to avoiding this dilemma is to learn the body language that will virtually guarantee this never happening to you again.

The secret is right in front of your eyes on TV and in Magazines every day.

Paris Hilton walks around strutting her stuff basically giving other women who are open to the exact formula for not just attractive body language, but highly attractive body language… but sadly all too many women are just a bit too angry or jealous to even begin to see what she can offer (for important reasons we won’t get into right now).

Paris Hilton knows how to walk correctly with the right posture with face always facing other people, her back straight her pelvis thrust out a little bit, and very relaxed.

She initiates the right amount of eye contact at the right time, knows when to initiate touch, when not to initiate touch and most importantly of all… how to smile.

#2. The Posture That DESTROYS Attractiveness, Which Paris Hilton Never Does… And How To Avoid It

There are certain body language signs that destroy male interest, and Paris Hilton NEVER engages in these things, and what you must understand if you want to become highly attractive to men is how to AVOID doing these things.

And if you don’t understand what destroys a man’s interest, most men will see right past you.

And by the way, simply knowing about this isn’t quite enough… you have to actually DO it and eliminate these “ticks” from your “body language memory”.

Have you ever thought about what “body language” actually is anyway, and what the hell it has to do with attracting men?

And yet body language is a HUGE part of the attraction process, even in long term relationships.  It’s in the deep BIOLOGY of human beings.

And a woman who eliminate all of the subtle ticks in her body language will make a man feel a deep pull in his loins… and better yet, she will begin to see great men coming up to HER to make something happen.

When you do things like hunch, walk without grace and gentleness, walk with flat feet, hold your head down, move around “too much” like you had too much caffeine, and don’t smile, you send a definite message off that says “I don’t like myself.  I don’t want to talk to you and I wouldn’t know what to do if I were around you.” … whether this happens to be true or not.

#3: Know How Much Confidence Is Attractive And When You’re Trying “Too Hard” To Be Confident And Come Across A Man Like A Man

Many women have this all too familiar problem… They know confidence is important when talking to a man, and it’s also important that a man have confidence, but they do this one thing that basically guarantees them failing with a guy: trying too hard.

When you try too hard, you send a clear message to a man: you don’t value yourself and you’re not confident about your true self.

You know those dorky guys who “have no idea how dating, relationships or women work” who you see trying to pick up women at bars while the girl sits there bored out of her mind hoping to GOD that he will leave?

Well when you try too hard, you become the female version of this to men.  I know it sucks and men act really stupidly sometimes.  Why not just like you for who you are?

But the fact is this is not how attraction works for men.

Have you ever thought about what you might be trying so hard to do?

Well, I believe that you’re trying hard to COVER UP your true self and you don’t believe in yourself.  This atitude will never make a man want to sweep you off your feet and have you really mean something to him.

You don’t see your true self as an attractive, desirable irresistible woman… even if you TRULY ARE underneath it.

It’s interesting to me that we take the opinions of others so strongly that we push down our own desires, wishes, beliefs and feelings.

But the fact is, is this very attitude that destroys your chances to be engraved in a man’s heart.

This is part of what I call “The Soap Opera Matrix”.

We begin to live in a “Matrix” (go watch the movie if you haven’t seen it), and if you’ve seen the movie and understood it, you know exactly what I’m talking about.

Paris Hilton NEVER tries hard, and her body language shows it.

She is very relaxed, and judging from her body language and other women I know very similar to her, she believes in everything she is doing is the right thing to do… whether it’s the right thing or not.

In other words, she believes in herself.

#4: Appearing Unique To A Man

There are many beautiful women walking around the earth, and if you want to attract a man, you must know how you’re coming to appear “different” from all the other women.

How do you do this?

By adding Paris Hilton + YOU.

You can’t attract all of the men, and if you try to be attractive to all men, 5 out of 5 men will think “ah yeah she’s OK, yeah she’s pretty and I would have sex with her, but I don’t know about a future…”  It’s a sad thing to hear but it’s the truth.

But if you learn to be truly rooted in YOURSELF and “differentiate” from the other girls, 4 out of 5 men will say “no way”, but one out of the 5 (the one you’re truly looking for) will have a resounding “YES”.

You want to had Paris Hilton with all of the things that you do uniquely… Then you have two things going for you.

a. You have highly attractive body language.

b. You are attracting the RIGHT kind of man and attracting him extremely deeply because you are being YOU.

The most important thing you could possible do is be YOU, and if you try to be somebody else, your going to be ATTRACTING THE WRONG MEN into your life.

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Fear is one of the most blinding emotions because it will sit there and rationalize all of the reasons why you should be afraid.

This is why I say you should be careful of which emotions you decide to believe are true.

If you feel a feeling of fear for instance, it is very easy to believe that the feeling is justified when it is absolutely not.

An example: Many women I consult are afraid of their boyfriend leaving them. They become so afraid that they become paralyzed and do NOTHING to help the situation. They are so consumed with the fear they can hardly breathe.

Fear blinds you. It will tell you that the worst is happening when in fact it is not… and it’s even possible that just the opposite is happening.

Carl Jung, famed psychologist, tells of a story of an old poor man who discovered something MAGICAL while beginning to plow his farm for the start of the season.

This old man had NOTHING. He was dirt poor, his wife and children had just left him for another man and all he had was his farm, an ox and an old plow.

The old man started plowing his field when almost immediately his plow hit a large immovable object in the ground and immediately breaks his plow in two.

The man couldn’t believe it. It was all he had. He became so afraid and so angry. “What am I going to do now? I have nothing left!” He started crying and cursing god and was contemplating committing suicide… when he thought “What did my plow hit anyway?”

He walked over to the exact spot his broken-in-two plow struck and curiously saw a big shiny golden ring sticking up halfway out of the ground.

He thought “This is strange…”

He became curious and began digging the strange ring up but it was attached to something much larger stuck deeper in the ground.

He spent an hour digging and heaved it up out of the ground. It was a giant, heavy wooden chest, and when he cracked open he saw a chest filled the brim with gold doubloons , diamonds the size of fists, emeralds, rubies…

In his greatest defeat was his greatest triumph.

That’s to say that fear BLINDS. In your greatest fear is your greatest treasure.

Another emotions that would not suspect so easily to blind you is love.

Love blinds you in much the same way that fear does.

That’s why I always say that a woman MUST have some sort of meditation she practices if she’s to have any hope of having a decent relationship. She needs to own her own willpower and just do it.

If a woman is not careful, she can be RULED by her emotions and become completely asleep.

This is the feminine energy and why it’s rare to find balanced woman. Either she is entirely feminine and ruled by her fluid emotions or she is hard, masculine and fears and hates the feminine world.

The feminine world IS a scary, chaotic place. It’s so scary and chaotic most people don’t know what women want… not even women!

She feels fear and then believes the thoughts, she feels guilt and believes it, she feels anger and believes it.

She becomes BLIND.

And what do you think this blind view does to her love life, her relationship?

Instead of a bonfire burning to keep her warm, her emotions turn into a wildfire burning every tree, every animal, every sign of life to dust.

But the feminine world has great power to destroy and all the power to bring life. If you actually know what femininity is you can change almost everything of what goes on in your love life/dating/relationships.

A fire can either keep you alive or kill you. It can either bring you life at just the right temperature or destroy everything, and without fire, there is no life.

Thanks for listening to my psychobabble hocus-pocus and I’ll talk to you again soon.

With honor,

Brandon