If you follow my posts, you know that I tend not to give you the “easy step by steps”. I like to make things hard for you

But there is a very deliberate reason why I do this.

To heal your love life, you must first heal YOU.

Growing up in this world, nobody has ever taught us the difficult things about emotions, love, about relationships. We have only ever been taught the easiest things, the tips and tricks, the game plan, what to say, the manipulation.

It is hard to teach others, especially children, about emotions because they are so vague, so nobody bothers to. It is out of their jurisdiction and too hazy.

It is so rare to actually be taught about our emotions: how they determine our love lives, how transform us, how to take charge of them, and how to be HAPPY.

We all know we want that but how?

What I go on and on blathering about is just that, but it’s TOUGH stuff! It’s only for the ballsy and courageous who actually want to see RESULTS. It’s so tough that most people sooner reject it than listen… for idiotic reasons.

It’s the toughest, and the more painful that sews the most results, and you have to have the eyes to see it.

The easy step by steps never will get you real results… until you understand the hard stuff.

The hard stuff is so hard because society has “brainwashed” us into taking the easiest, quickest way - Instant Gratification. We like to see results and we want them right now.

But those results always and only come halfway. We’re never satisfied with those results and we end up pissed and angry.

The hard stuff should come first, and then later, the “step by steps” come. If you try to take a rose and plant it in the desert, it will automatically die. But, if you have a fertilized, hydrated garden with nutritious soil to plant the rose in, it will bloom wildly and beautifully.

I teach you the hard stuff in my posts to filter out people who really don’t want change. Then in my up coming book, the stuff you have to pay for, I go into the step by steps, but if you don’t change first, what kind of use will the step by steps be?

Your very foundation has to be changed to see any real results in your love life.

Your very feminine core has to be rerouted to happiness and power rather than the feeble, guilt ridden state most women deal with.

Where are you going to get to in a weak and guilt ridden state?

To have love come into your life, you must become more LOVING.

You cannot have love come into your life by feeling guilty, if you blame people for your situation, if you hate others, if you are jealous. It will never happen! You cannot attract something so magnificent as love by feeling guilt. There is no way.

There is no tip or trick that will ever be able to help you with that. You must learn to become empowered, more aware of your emotions, of the situation, more intelligent and more loving. The more of this you have, the more the game plan will not only be of use, but will jet propel you to where you want to go.

The game plan must come after everything else. Otherwise, no results. Happiness must become your state of living, your state of being, your state of breathing and without any reason at all.

Just be happy! What have you got to lose?

That is when you will be ready to go deeper into the rabbit hole and learn the real game plan.

I’d really love to hear your thoughts on this. What are some core challenges you battle with ie. emotions that get in the way, consistent problems you see with men, addictions etc. I’d also love to hear where you are at in your personal journey.

Stay classy planet earth,
Brandon