Learning The Secrets To Men By Having A Boyfriend Blueprint
In this video, you’ll see me talk about the importance of having a “blueprint” to a boyfriend to successfully hold relationships with men and get the kind of love, attention and healthy masculinity you’ve always wanted from them. Watch the video and leave me a comment to let me know what you would like to learn in a blueprint for a boyfriend focused on getting the “insides” on men and learning to handle them.
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Can’t wait for my love potions.
how do i have sex with a guy without him thinking i’m easy or desparate.
do age differences really matter
if he tries to make me jealous do i ack jealous or just fob it off
Good advice. A friend of mine said Never take a comment seriously and make a big deal out of it….bringing a heaviness to it..making it Real….Try lightening it up by saying that Clint Eastwood line..”SMILE when you say that partner”…..Now for what I would like to see. 1. How to get to intimacy,..We have fun, we have great sex and good intellectual conversations but no love talk. 2. How to know when to disappear, make him wonder and maybe worry. 3. ?
How can a mature woman just enjoy being with a man sexually and enjoy his company without him thinking that she is easy.
Hey Brandon! I’m so excited that you are doing videos now and I just cant wait to see all the awesome goodness you have for me
So here are some things that i would like to see you lay out for me in this boyfriend blueprint.
1. Well I would love to know what exactly turns him on and off, and how i can get him going like instantly! haha
2. Are there any quick “one two punches” i could do to strike him in his heart and have him falling head over heels for me and incredibly inspired to dive even deeper into the sea of our love?
3. Also how do you know if you’re giving him enough freedom?
Hi Brandon :]
I’m going to send you an email also. Just so you know.
Well, I’d like to know how can I tell if a man is ready to open his heart? I’m having this problem with my current boyfriend. He’s nice to me, says he loves me and would do anything for me, but we haven’t had any deep conversations and I’m not sure 1 how to know if he is capable of having them and 2 if he is, how to initiate deep conversation. I’ve had deep conversation before, but I have no idea how it started, it was probably started by the other person. I’m guessing I’ll just have to wait and see, but I want to know if I’m waiting for something that will never happen. Was that three things? I think so.
Peace, Love & Soul.
Few Questions:
1- How to decipher between a mature man and an immature man
2- What to do and how to react when they don’t call regularly- even after a great date
3- How a woman can make sure she isn’t considered a booty call……
Thanks Brandon!!
Hi Brandon,
I’m excited about you doing a video now. I have sooo many questions but am having trouble putting them down into sentences.
Definitely, need to know why women that are attracted to younger men get the bad wrap. It appears to be great for men to go after younger women. I’m having trouble being attracted to a man my age (because either they’re already taken or they’re over weight and lazy! All of which I can’t do!) So, I need to know how I can over come the looks and comments when I am with a younger man? How can I be sure that it’s NOT just a sexual connection? How can I get the guy I’m really attracted to, but he lives an hour away, to give us a real shot?
Good advice.
My questions:
1. How to get a man to open up to you, even when he’s closed off.
2. Why men become distant with you
3. How to keep a man interested in a long-term relationship
Hi !
Great Video. Quite benificial Thanks !
Here is my No.1 Question about men
1) How do you know He’s not menipulating your feelings, If He’s genuion.
2) Guys like the Chase Game, How can you tell if he likes you or the chase.
3) What is the best way to approach a guy first without scaring him off !
Thanks I love this website it helps ALOT <3
Hi Brandon…thank you for sharing your video with me. I have a questgion or two specific to me and my boyfriend.
How can I get him to open up with me and become emotionally available? I feel like I’m pulling teeth just getting him to talk to me about how he feels.
How can I get him to understand that I need an emotional connection in order to enjoy sex with him. He struggles with expression and I find it difficult to feel romantic without emotional closeness…not always but I have to know its available when I need it. I remember when we were first together sexually being much more intimate…or did I imagine that?
I look forward to hearing from you again.
Hi Brandon. Just a few quick questions.
1) How do you get a man to open up when he thinks that his feelings on things are “unimportant.” Like when you can tell something is bothering him but he tells you its not important, how to break down the barriers so they can be honest and vulernable to their fears or desires.
2) What should you do when your man is giving you the cold shoulder about something you have done or said. Is an honest confrontation best (usually just ends in denial about him being upset) or should you play along with it? (this just seems un-integrous to me becuase its just playing childish games.) So yeah, do you play along, use a different tactic, or another approach entirely?
3) In the bedroom, how to have romantic sex, but still HOT sex. My boyfriend is either very loving or very sexy to me, what is a good way for me to inspire BOTH of these things to be present in the bedroom?
1. I am a strong, independant woman ready to settle down but keep finding myself with needy men. I am looking for strenghth and self sufficiency -well perfection. I am over taking care of everybody. What can I do differently to project and radiate this kind of ideal in a man.
2. Whats with those men who become convinced of “our destiny” together? How to handle men who you like but are not quite on the same page with so early in a relationship?
3. How to be in a un-commited relationship while sex is a factor with out them falling in love. Allowing freedom to explore and date others while being integrous and respectful.
thanks, amber
Hi Brandon - you are quite a handsome man!!
My questions:
1. I found out I am very much attracted to very very masculine, alpha type of a man. This is the only type of a man by whom I naturally become flirtatious and fun to be with. Other men simply dont do the magic with me…is there any way I can become attracted also to less masculine men??? How I can bring out their masculinity also on a first or second date without having to force myself into some games and strategies???
2. because of point 1. where do I find masculine men??? are there any special places where they hang out???
3. how can I show interest to a very masculine man in a subtle, yet to him visible but not extremely obvious way??? I mean in a classy way?
4. how do I get men to stop talking all the time about themselves and show a tiny little bit interest in my person and life on a first date??? well usually there is no other date cause I am just soo fed up with them and not attracted to them that I dont wanna any other date :((
I am looking forward to the report :)))
Hi Brandon,
I would like ideas on how to instil attraction within a man when the situation
seems almost lost i.e. how do you get a man to feel like he WANTS to contact
you again or give a relationship another chance.
I liked the video and I’m looking forward to receiving the love potion spells.
Deborah
hey
1. Sometimes when I’m feeling particularly emotional, I’m hesitant to open up to my boyfriend about what I’m feeling. I’m afraid I’ll be a “downer” and spoil our time together. So what ends up happening a lot of the time is I just keep these things to myself and deal with them on my own later, and instead focus on enjoying the moment with him. The problem is that the more I do this, the more emotionally distant I feel from him. I don’t want that. I want to share and be open with him. I’m not really sure what to do. How do I find balance?
2. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and while this isn’t a problem a lot of the time, sometimes things get a little too routinized and we just seem tired and bored. does that make sense? I want to know how to bring that “spark” back during those times, without it feeling forced. I want to re-charge the batteries, so to speak. How do I bring that out in our relationship naturally?
3. … if I think of a number three I will let you know!!
thanks,
Seren
Is it true men think about sex very frequently/almost all the time?
Is it true almost all men will have sex with an attractive woman who shows up naked offering it because men are driven by some (primal or other) need to procreate?
How can we gaurantee our men stay faithful?
My boyfriend is a big flirt with all other women, should I be concerned?
How can i get my boyfriend to trust me and not be so controlling?
My boyfriend is so magnetic and attractive and charismatic, and so in love with me, yet the one thing that attracted me to him attractes other women ALL the time. Im afraid that behind my back he secretly enjoys this attention, and that he has a cheating mind, even tho he claims he would never cheat. How can i get over this?
I want to learn how to calm the fire in him, hes so jealous and insecure, he looses sight of my love for him so he gets so worked up and doesnt beleive he deserves me or is worth my love, so he does the easiest thing there is, he flipps out and gives me an easy out, he doesnt have faith in how miuch u love him.
I am excited about the Love Potion Spell Book! 1. I am interested in finding out if it’s possible to rekindle love when there’s been a bit of distance, we’ve got incredible chemistry, and no fighting at all, I’ve been a bit emotional, not crazy in any way, and great with giving him space, but he’s going thru drama outside of me..Can I get him to come back by being lighthearted? 2. Does his distance or cold shouldering mean he cares any less? 3. He said a lot of deep things, how deep will a genuine guy get with his words to get to a sexual relationship?
Hope that helps steer the ship some! Keep me posted. Can’t wait! Thanks Brandon, you’re adorable. lol….
I guess i have the same questions as amber as i find needy clingy men or totally unanvailable ones are really attracted to me and they are always going through some drama in their lives when we meet be it the y just broke up with ex or they are going through hardship with work and home or they are leaving the country soon (now thats is a definate patter the travelling one
Thank you for your reports and articles. And thanks to your readers for the questions. Thank you for the “spell” book, sounds good to me. I’m happy. Also, I agree with your Spell report. Men are sensitive and kinda tricky. I like to encourage men to dance, but realize I cannot force them.
I swear, I was watching a star last night and it blinked off, then on, then off for 5-10 seconds !!! Then on. Far out !! Only thing I can say is, please do not take my word for it.
Love,
Grandma
1. If a do the love potion , how much time should I give him if he resists?
2. If he is negative about hiself, how should I response?
3. I desire to learn how to communicate with a man successfully.
Brando? Does the love potion work every time?
How do you handle if he resists?
Sandra
Brandon<
How can I know if a man is available for the Love potion to work?
My husband does not know how to communicate, do you think this skills will still work with him?
Brandon,
My husband tries to make me jelous, how can this be handled/
How can I keep my husband interested and how can I be lighthearted when he is bieng difficult?
I realy like you adive!!
thanks
Brandon,
My husband tries to make me jelous, how can this be handled?
How is the best way to handle an unavailabe man?
How much work does it take to make a relationship successful?
I realy like you adive!!
thanks
Hi Brandon,
1) What difference does a man make in saying “I love you” OR “I am in love with you”?
2) What can I do that he is madly in love with me?
3) My boyfriend is a shy guy but he’s great in sharing his feelings with me. He tells me that I’m doing everything right, that he adores me and I should keep doing what I’m doing, that I am on the right track and he is happy. On the other hand he told me there is something missing but he doesn’t know what it is. What could it be? I have to say I happen to be a woman with some natural instinct for dealing with men, I have many admirers that want to date me and even marry me. So, I must be doing something right here it’s just I want to be able to create this I-cannot-livewithout-her-connection with him.
Thanks Brandon, you’re cool man!
If a man you have been with for 7 years loves you, things are good except that he doesnt really know how to show you affection or it doesnt cross his mind on how to tell you he cares…but he does try, seems like he just doesnt know how- his father wasnt in his life when he was growing up but is now..(may have something to do with it) I see he tried so hard
but he just falls back into the cycle of 2 minutes every 2 days of opening up on a affection level or even longer than 2 days…Thanks for your ideas.