How to Get Your Controlling Boyfriend to STOP Being So Damn Controlling!
So you have a controlling boyfriend and you’ve read “Is He Controlling Me?” Signs of a Controlling Boyfriend and now you’re ready to learn how to get a man to STOP controlling you.
How do you get a controlling man, so controlling that it boils your insides, to give you as much freedom as you want and STILL give you attention, love and respect?
I’m about to show you a simple three step process to reverse a man’s possessiveness, but STILL gets him giving you love and attention in a HEALTHY way…while setting him up to be the perfect MAN for you.
So, how do you get a man to stop being so controlling and domineering?
Very carefully! 
I’ve helped many women overcome this obstacle with men, and the thing is, when a man is possessive and insecure… let’s just say he’s been more “emotionally stable” in other times in his life.
So, getting a man to stop controlling is like coaxing a wild bucking bull into calming down.
I don’t mean to make this sound difficult, but I want you to be prepared.
When you’re dealing with insecurity in a man, you must approach him in a specific way.
So the first thing is…
1. Do The OPPOSITE Of What Most Women Do
Most women in controlling situations resent the man for controlling her…and for good reason.
But this is the opposite of what works to get a man to become balanced and restore love to a relationship.
What works is to love him unconditionally and give HIM his freedom.
I know this isn’t what you want to hear, so let me explain.
When a man is possessive and controlling, it can make a woman pissed off, get upset and bring a lot of pain and confusion to her.
Men can be real assholes, especially when they become controlling jerks.
Often times when I’m doing a phone coaching session, women don’t believe me at first when I say their energy is creating the situation.
It’s hard for them to believe.
But their mind changes when I ask them to think about this:
If you’re angry at a wild bull and start attacking it, do you think you’re going to calm him down or make him more angry?
Do you see what I mean?
Possessiveness in a man is a very biological, primal reaction. It’s something men do when they become insecure about their relationship.
So you must change your energy from anger to something else because…
What you give out is what you get back.
If your energy is in anger at him for controlling you, he’s only going to want to control you even more and will get more angry.
When you react against something a man does, you make it BIGGER in your life.
Here’s what I mean.
Have you ever gotten upset at a man for not calling you…you made it clear to him that he wasn’t calling you and it hurt your feelings…he then called you once after the conversation to talk…but then went back to the same behavior as before, if not worse?
And do you think that this will make him want to free you up?
Well you kind of HOPE it will…but it ain’t gonna.
I’m not saying you don’t love him, but the first step you have to take to prep the groundwork for bringing a relationship back to balance is to accept him fully.
I know it’s hard, but it’s what must be done (and it’s not hard if you follow the Heart Consciousness exercise).
I’ve seen this one simple step change many men instantly with my own eyes.
And if you accept him fully, jealousy, control, possessiveness and all, he will begin to make steps to accept YOU fully and your needs.
2. Turning The Tides In Your Favor
Have you ever gotten with a man you first met…maybe you even slept with him, and you thought he was going to be a great boyfriend…but then he said something like “I’m not interested in a relationship right now.”
You didn’t know what to do and found yourself calling him all the time and feeling needy…and then what you feared most happen: he cut communication with you and you never heard from him again?
Why did this happen and why did he hurt you?
You may not have suspected what caused it, but it was the subtly of not accepting his statement to not want a relationship.
When he said “I’m not interested in a relationship” you might have reacted negatively and your feeling got hurt.
And when he felt you feel fear, that was the moment he knew for sure you weren’t “girlfreind material”.
And chances are that same man was with another woman very shortly afterward…but this time he was asking her for a relationship…and it had nothing to do with age, physical attractiveness or even life circumstances.
What did she do that you didn’t?
And what does this have to do with a controlling man?
Simple fact: the more you resist a man you’re in a relationship with the more he’s going to act negatively towards you.
He’s going to feel like you’re slipping out of his grasp and begin making more attempts to control you.
Not good.
What to do?
Go WITH the flow.
Seriously, don’t try to swim upstream.
You’ll get exhausted and get NOWHERE.
And by going with it, you’re NOT giving in to his control.
In fact, once again you’re making another step to prepare the ground for things to change.
Here’s the thing, usually we have to do the OPPOSITE of what we think will work in love to actually get what we want.
To get him to lighten up with you, stop resisting it so much like you probably are now.
You will be surprised when he begins to trust you immediately and lets go of you and starts to become “Mr. Right”.
3. Stop Withholding Truth, Using “Tricks” Or Playing Games
Many men control because they feel a woman is untrustworthy…so he will try to control you because he doesn’t TRUST you.
So what I say is to earn his trust.
Yes, it’s that simple!
I’m not saying you aren’t trustworthy, but you must SHOW him that you are.
If you don’t take active steps to earn his trust, he will never want to let off.
And if he IS being controlling, something tells me that you haven’t earned his trust, and you are possibly doing things to AMPLIFY the situation.
Now listen, this isn’t your fault.He’s grown up under different circumstances than you.
But it’s up to you to make things change, because HE’S NOT GOING TO!It’s too unpredictable to rely on him to change things without you taking action.
Look, when he starts to ABSOLUTELY trusts you, he WILL let off.
Not only will he let off…but he will find it a lot easier to get truly INTIMATE with you rather than holding back like he might be doing right now.
If you follow this basic three step process and use it on a daily basis, you WILL see things start to improve.
This is a very basic outlined structure of where to start.
I’m not going to get into tips and “techniques” today because they’re probably going to trip you up and get in your way and I want to keep things simple.
I really hoped this has helped you understand at least one more thing you can start doing right now that’s going to heal your relationship.
And do me a favor and leave me a comment in the box below so I can hear your thoughts, questions or successes with this material and if there’s anything more I can do to help you with your PERSONAL situation.
I want to get it down right for you…and make sure that you’re getting what you really need out of this, so be sure to leave me a comment.
And I’ll more than happy to leave you back a comment with my thoughts.
Until next time,
With honor and love,
Brandon
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I also think going with the flow does change him drastically because I am in a similar situation where the father of my baby boy is controlling so I try and give him all the freedom he wants and all the time he needs by himself and he comes back to us at the end of the day. So I say biggups to the three step process
Nice!
Thanks guys for you’re comments
Yeah, I’ve seen “going with the flow” do AMAZING things.
Things like you wouldn’t believe
Controlling men have insecurities, fears, and low self-esteem. He does not trust you, He does not believe you. Being with him is like being in a prison where you have to watch your back constantly and walk on eggshells for fear of upsetting him. Why would you want a man like that? Life is simply too short to waste it on such a man. I recommend simply walking away.
Hi Kids,
First, thank you for your thought provoking communications.
Yeah, I’d have to agree with Kit. I mean we are a piece of the puzzle too, we have to be truthful and loving of our self and yeah we can put up with and dish out some crap, but guess I disagree with this strategy in a destructive circumstance that only we may decide.
I’m not the easiest person either, I have some quirks, I can’t help saying this but it does tie in with a previous article. Quess what? I fart sometimes. Can you believe it? I actually fart. It seems to me the majority of people cannot get past healthy biological normalities. Yeah, sometimes they (the farts) are kinda loud and sometimes they smell. OMG!!!
I think going with the “flow wolf” is generally a good idea in many circumstances. However , It seems to me the thing men avoid most is the old “Truth” face to face. Call it what you will. I’m tired of wars I’m tired of hatred and my fondest wish is for all people, women and men to work together toward understanding among each other. Sure toes will get stepped on, just not too hard — its only dancing.
I usually offer just a little too much truth, that pushes them away, for me it tells me the men from the boys. If they can’t handle the truth they sure can’t handle me.. I’m kind of indianish and I’m a rock hugger and I have a vision that includes mending of relationships and people working and playing together. “Love, exciting and nuuu, come on boarrrd, were expecting uuuu, Its Looovve Boooat, lalalalalalalaaaa. Personally, straight up, I’d rather be pushed away than left dangling. I do not withhold truth and I do not hold my breath. Peace and good wishes always. Love Grandma OX
Where there’s a will there’s a way. Dear Padre,
Your post “Relationship Game” has a very Christian flavor.
Having some mixed emotions on this. Naturally I feel it is essential in any relationship to be able to step in and try to understand other people and perspectives. At the same time I think there is such a thing as too much understanding, too much giving. Too much coddling can hinder growth and development. I truly believe for any person, nothing will ever be good enough until they are good enough for themselves. It gets easy to get stuck in a sinkhole of giving and setting aside personal needs, easy to be swallowed by the unsatiable. All children thirst and hunger for truth and some measure of understanding. We don’t just breath in or out, we do both, pretty basic stuff guys.. Women can easily lose their identity merging too much — too much merging will build resentment and anger. Sometimes a man needs to build bridges and get over them too,,, sometimes for no good reason. Understanding goes both ways. We are all in the same boat and it is not up to one or another, sometimes we give more and sometimes we need to know when we have given enough. Respectfully yours, Grandma OX
I did not see where to post a comment on this so if you would be so kind. Women have enough pressure and so do men. If we want to come together effort is needed on both sides. It doesn’t take much and if it takes too much we may choose a different course, we have choices.
Please don’t push it all on the women, I don’t like that.
PS. Thank you for helping me think and vent. This is a wonderful gift, have fun too. All ways.
Its gud and worth considering
Keep it up !
i am so depressed i cant stand him n e more i always had a high tolerance but now its faded due to his actions. the man gives me breatha lizer test if i go anywhere and i never was a big drinker and havent even looked at alcohol in a year yet his one relative lives with us and its unbarable i take care of them both and when its my time 4 once to go do sumthing 4 me hes on me like like flies on u know what but its ok 4 him to go to get tats til 10 @ nite and i am not to b mad? so i was sweet and did all the things i was to do. and even though i was so pissed that nite he went to get a tat i finally took the time today to go visit my mother in the 1st time in 6months. and he said wel whatever u just better b home b4 i am already starting on me. so i tried and tried to keep cool til he brings up all past crap i coulnt help but blow. i know what alot of ppl say thers 2 sides to every story! bullshiit in my case ive catered,served,cleaned,ran all sorts of arrons even waiting in a freezing ass line sumwhere in chicago to wait 4 a pair of new jordans that were coming out to not get the pair cuz i was to far back in line to cal him and tell him the bad news instead of him being like a loving man and saying oh honey u must b cold cmon home u tried! or ok no prob ill just except this. hellllllllll nooooooooooo did thoses thingss happen. what he did do is call me a bitch and screamed that i shuldve left even earlier then he siad and blah bitch and moan##%^$^$%^!!! so i told him off and came home.but this person has been like this since day one well a lil after when he knew i was in love or hooked. hes a bastard. hes hit me yelled at me 4 getting ballpark hotdogs instead of oscar meyer ones just to open the fridge to show him that was the brand in ther being eaten by him the whole time and that he never complained b4 y now? here i am sweet enough to even do all these things 4 him and he still knocks me down my dreams my family my love 4 anything except himself. hes always acting cocky and stuck up and when hes told that by ppl back in the day he laughs and thinks its cool. so i wanted to move 4 the last 3 years i tell him lets just go and have a clean break that hes not a family man or ever wants kids sumday i spent all my twenties with him and put me on the back burner while he got ahead in life and here i sit with shit! im mad that i allowed this to happen to me and ive always been a strong believer in change which he had me do all the time the way i dresses talked hair makeup etc. i told him i want out then i refuse to stop doing the things i like to plz him and that he wouldnt do that 4 me! all he cares about is the upgrades on his house and his cars and his money and such. and all i did was work at the time and take care of his relative and run all her arrons and his by the end of the day at the time i was so mentally exausted from her endless coversations and his every hour on the hour phone calls yelling that i wasnt doing what i am to be doing. i was and am hurt and exausted from his ass! he pawned off his relative on me to take care of and me being a push over i took it all these years. now the relative is getting like him telling me what to do and such and me being super sweet i just allowed it cuz even though ther hurting me i didnt wasnt to hurt them that just wasnt my nature i dont know y? i was raised to b kind! but this isnt including all the times he kicked me out to b with another or hed pick fights wit me on purpose to get me to leave then hed whore around and then get bored with them and come get me back. and me being young i thought he was realizing what he had yet in reality it wasnt it was just his girl toys or whatever they were tohim were gone or left too who the hell knows. i just thought id have a diff life then this. one that was loving and caring. i have to say i met a man after leving the controller 4 a year and him and i hit it off well real well. he was so good to me i got freaked he said hun this is what love is and we were so happy. but we broke up after the controller decided to come bak to get me cuz what he had going was gone i guess. so i found out. he begged and pleaded that he is not the same as b 4 and he had changed 4 the better he now knows i was the one. so me having the huge history with him yet never really knowing who he is i took him back i really had to decide who i wanted i was curious to see if what he was saying was true? so here i am 3 years later and the ex he had is sending me all sorts of proof that thay been talking since she left and planning on geting bak together. so i am getting abused emotionally,physically, on top of it cheated? im getting all 3 things done to me when alot just moan about one or the other. so now im at my wits end with it all. and here hell b itting pretty with the house and all the luxaries and i have shit to show 4 all the work i put in the house cuz he made it seem at the times that i waould be apart of this dream i helpped him built when hes rite back to the old person. i am so lost i dont want to burden anyone i just wasnt to run away frm it all. everything. ive been violated by him sexually back in time when ever wed do it hes say oh just put it in ur mouth and it was a whole year the last time we did it. and we finally did it recently i was in such need so i went to be with him and he pushed me off and tried pushing my head downther to do him and i get nothing as always thats what sex with him is like no passion always abusing me always!!! hes held unloaded guns to my head when he got jealous in the past cuz i was working a lil longer then usual. and i will be hoinest i had never cheated on him ever all the years. then all of a sudden i met a man and we hit it off. i couldnt help it the other man knew i had him and was moving so i kept my word and as much fear of my life as i was i moved and waht was funny is the controller didnt try to stopme at all. so after a year he came back as i said earlier to find out the broad he was with were seeing eachother 5 months b4 i even moved out how shitty is that? and as alwasy he denies everything but i dnt believe him he lies to me as he lied to her. so now after all this crap. 3 years later, im getting proof of him emailing her and how i know its true? because everything hes doing now with her,calls,emails, etc he used to do to me and thers no way shed know this stuf its him and he lies. so today i made the desision i want to move on sooooooooooo bad i cant even go get my nails dne with out him flipping out on me about where i was. in other words he broke the trust bind way back with me ill never trust him again as he doenst with me. i told him i want out now hes like well (laughing whatever) i still have sum arrons 4 u to do like going to the dmv 2 morrow and get this and that and this and that. then as soon as i get up to go i get bumbarded with questions from the realative where u going? and talks and talks about useless info i dnt even care to know its just sumthing 4 her to do and in the meantime its mentally draining me so much cuz not only wiil she have a list of stuff 4 me to do i have his on top of it. and its just enough to take up all my time so by the time i get dne the whole days done then hes on his wasy home hungary and wants this an s that to eat and served to him then shes in my was telling me how to cook and asking me all sorts of dumb questions and telling me what she sees on the news or how many cars drove past on the highway. im like shut the fuck up in my head to them both. plus i work and pay bills at the time. so now hes already got a list of arrons 4 me 2 do 2morrow and i wanna mive and this would all have to happen in the fucking dead ass cold winter months with nowhere to go and such. what im thinking is cuz i keep saying i wanna leave he is getting mre ready to find that broad again and wants her to cme bak cuz he did it to her when she was leaving/ but hes not the kind to just tell u or talk hell just come home one day and u think its all ok and hell just blurt out hmmmmmmmmm well ur just not what im looking 4 so its time to hit the road. how do i know cuz hes done this a thousand time to me in the past 10 years. so thats y that one year when i finally got the balls to leave him i didnt feel so guilty cuz i wasnt at fault he did me and that other gal wrong so many times. i have watche dr phil and read an bought books and did all sorts of reading and such to figure out wth is wrong with me? it was never me it was and is him all together. i just havve that feeling hes gonna pull the rug frm under me again one day and tell me its over. and its like just one time i want him to hurt the way he hurted me 4 all 11 years of hell barley any good times with him that i can remember. hes always gotta pic on me whether it a tiny zit on my fface he has to tell me it ther or a spot on my shirt that is ther or my car is junk or im a loser or anything to put me down yet hes the succesful one hes got money 4 a reason. sure he soes cuz im spending all my time plzing both of these controllers in one household and putting my schooling and hobbies and work i want to do aside and here they have time to put the extra 8 hours in at work to make that money. so i am a loser 4 staying with this piece of garbage. and another thing i have never ever borrowd money or been dependent on him in the past til this last year and this is y cuz u owe them everything under the sun . the controller will make an agreement with u and say well ill hlp and pay this biill u have (cuz they make u quit ur job) if u do this 4 me stain a acre fence by hand well that was the deal and other lil things u do and then a year later bring it up u stil owe them not remembering or choosing not to remember that damn fence. or the fact u sat and listened to stories about stupid things all da long from the relative just to ware them out so when the controller comes home the relative will be so tired frm talking all day thanks to me the controller can just relax while im going a mile a min tring to make him a dinner and shes in the backround talking more and more. then he yelss at her to go to her room and hsut up and laughs while she gets hurt and whines its so cold in this house and i nedd this and that oh if it wasnt 4 u (me) i dnt know what id do u know the sympathy card again. then il make his meal take it him with all the trimmings u name it then asd ur serving it hell say ewww whats this crap it looks like ka ka!!! then he laughs. u know i have a fun personality too and know when to take a joke but he does this all time every day. he has to be shitty about sumthing once a day or he has to fight with me about sumthing once a day im not kidding this guy is wacked by far! thers a set schedule to live with him. i have to make sure he ate b4 me cuz he works so hard and i dnt lol (for real he thinks this way) then he has to have everything his way or else. the other person wnt make herself sumthing to eat til he gos to bed cuz he yells that she makes a mess with her butter knifes and plates and such. its even got to the point where i was nice enough to get sum tv dinners 4 her and i. and one nite or 2 or 100 she comes out and says ohhhhhh those look good ill take the meatball dinner later ok?> im like what now i gotta cook 4 her too? wtf is going onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn?????????????????? so i am just so angry inside i never thought id take this kinda crap frm anyone in my life but i guess when ppl take my kindness 4 weakness and knows how to play the game it can b dne. and im thinknig they dnt know there even doing it at times there just bossy controlling ppl. yet i cant take this n e more seriously. i am walking on eggshells everyday around her. its like i am ther personal slave and the lady sees my pain and hell and still chooses to add to it just to get her stuff dne. once and a blue mon shell stop and say oh i am sorry i hate having to have u runn alll over 4 me too. but yet she still does it. then he will call and he hears her talking in the backround and tells me to tell her to shut up that hes talking. im like wth? this isnt my plc to tell her that he needs to sit dwn with her and have a heart to heart. but he wnt he treats her bad too.this is his relative btw. and he disrespects her as he does mel. but then shel say oh ur his slave i dunno what to tell u. but yet she still stays here and takes the abuse too! any ways i am soooo sorry to u guys 4 this being so long but i had to vent. i am one fed up woman who wants to just b happy trusted loved cared about respected #1. and again i am a strong believer that respect is # 1 u have to give what u give i alwasy was taught yet i gave and gave and get no respect in return and i reall am angelic in this relationship and alwasy was till he double crossed me then id do him like he did me i only hurt him when he hurts me or when he provokes me 1st then i provke him bakc as kiddish as it sounds he always starts it. i try and try. i am the mature one and i have been through hell wit this guy. i always took care of him and gave him the emotional love and support he needs. yet he still chooses to put me down or tried to change me to b sumthing i am not. i hate him 4 all the hell and lies and games he plays on me and need an answer to this so ill check in to see if anyone responded to this i need help plzzzzzzzzzz????????? any body!!!
i hope to hear sumthing soon!!!
You need to leave him once and for all and live a life that u deserve???? how can u love someone who treats u like that?? hes a ASSHOLe DONT take this from him honestly
i read that whole thing and that sounds so painful honestly how could someone put u thru that . HE DESERVES TO BE ALONE. U DESERVE LOVE AND COMMITTMENT AND RESPECT AND HONOUR!
Why dont guys like talking about things ?because i try to talk to myfiance about things and he will ignore me and change the subject or make a joke about it . I did try to tell him about why he was doing that and why dont he talk and with out communication the relationship will go downhill and all he says is ok than he will kind of talk but if i say some thing he dont like he will ignore him and when i get him made by asking him the same question over and over again thinking he might get tired of me asking and start alking he says what do you want from me. HE also checks up on me to see who im talking to and he only lets me talk to certain boys and sometimes not even that like what is wrong with him but now what he tells me i cant do i tell him well you cant do it either most time he listen but other times he be like why im the boss i do what i want. but other times he says oh i cant do nothing no more well how he thinks i feel. one time he did someting and i got mad so i was like to think how i feel before you do stuff that affects me and he was no i dont think before i do nothing and i was like listen im about to be your wife you got to consider me like come on i dont know what to do he also blams things on me and say there my fault all the time it can be some one else fault if it affects him nope he tells me its mine. its like he dont care.And when he gets mad he calls me all type of names and things some times he be like oh you dont deserve me or any body that treat you good than he say oh i can do better than you and things all like that and than like i broke up with him a couple times and we got back together. than when i told him it was over again hewas like its always over with you and i let you come back to me so im the reason we still together like he tells me he dnt mean what he say but if he did he would stop when he relizes how it hurts me and he could at least come to me and appologize he dont even do that .
Yeah I feel stupid now lol.,. I have been doing everything wrong with my bf.. We just had a blow out and I told him off.. I am totally not honest with him as I guess I deserve what I get.
Sorry for the delayed response as my email’s been a little swamped and I haven’t checked this post in a while
Both you ladies Lisa and Laymari,
I want you to go download my Love Potion Spell Book and read up on the “Manhandling” formula NOW.
That’s for starters.
It’s free and you can download it here:
http://www.yintegrity.com/blog/the-love-potion-spell-book-special-report/
After you’ve read the whole thing (and there’s other great tips in their on getting men to act positively), I don’t want to “sell” on it too much, but you gotta pick up a copy of Relationship Rockstar (especially you Laymari). That one’s not free, but it’s worth the price of admission. You can find more info on that here:
http://www.yintegrity.com/store/relationship-rockstar-ebook
Lisa, as far as you’re situation goes, you’re situation is “red zone”, so careful on what kinds of brash actions you take. shoot me a personal email at my email address at Brandon@yintegrity.com and we’ll chat a little more about this and see what we can salvage. My heart’s with you in the mean time
I feel that I am honest with my boyfriend; almost overly honest with him. From the beginning of our relationship he had lied to me about a previous marriage that went bad. She cheated on him woth his cousin and told me that it was very hurtful. He said it was a part of his life that he closed and just wanted to forget about. He ended telling me about it before I found out about it on my own. This was a strain on our relationship and I understand that her cheating on him has brought more insecurities on him. He has become very controlling. I quite smoking b/c I wanted to but also with his forcefulness. He doesn’t like me to go out with my friends or do anything. I feel like he wants me all to his self and no one else can have any attention. He sometimes gets upset when I talk on the phone with friends and family. It is emotionally draining. I get very angry and upset. I feel like he tells me what I can and cannot do. The other day he even said that if I start going to bars with my friends again then its over! Is this something that ever he will get over. I will not be controlled and we get in fights over this, at times I give in but only because I am tired of fighting because of his behavior. What do you think about this situation?
i am a man with these issues and now our relationship is on the rocks, im now in pieces and dont know what to do, so turned to the internet to find some answers and get me back on the right track, it is true i have had a difficult childhood and my partner has stood by me during soome of those times, i have been with her for nearly 4 years and i am 19. i dont like treating her this way so want to do something to change and i have explained to her that i cant do it on my owne, but now i have found this advise on the net i hope it will work, we split up on the 15/5/09 and i haven’t seen her since and she is hardly speaking to me, but she is willing to see me tonight hopefully to make amends. i have appologised and told her i want to change but im not sure it has worked. i am going to show her this website and hope that she will see it is a common problem with men, this is not the first web site i have checked and i have many symptons of this problem. i love her soo much but sometimes i feel she doesn’t love me and she wants someone else but i know its not true, but with the problem i posses it is making it very difficult for us to get on. we have done nothing but argue for the past 4 months or so, and when some one sent her a message saying ‘they want to pay to see have sex’ and ‘i love it when you talk dirty to me’. this made it worse and the past month we have argued none stop since. i really do want to change i love her and dont want to loose her forever. i am sorry for how i have treated her and i hope she forgives me. i regret treating her this way and i bet bthat bthere many of other people out there that feel the same way as i do but are to ashamed to do anything about it. all you need to do is show them this website, so they can see it is a problem and its not the other partner. maybe they will then change just as much as you want them too.
im having so much problems with my boyfriend? can u help?….he told me i cant talk to anyguys and everytime i want to go into the subject he says just f*** it!!! gosh i dont even do anything like i went to the pool with my friends some guys n he started yelling at me and everytime he gets jelous he holds a grudge for at least a week n tries revenge with my best friend!!!! please help
Hi,
After reading your articles i think i’m a controlling boyfriend. I love my girlfriend and don’t want to be this kind of controlling guy. What can i do to stop myself?
The advice from the article above seems to be targeted for the girlfriend and what she can do, do you have any advice on what i could do?
And if i wanted her to read this article and your love spell potion book how would i do so? without seeming controlling?
thanks,
By ‘going with the flow” should I give in when my boyfriend doesnt want me to do something? My boyfriend will get upset about me going to the mall or taking a hike. I am afraid that by giving in and allowing him to control things like that then I will never be able to do the things I enjoy without him getting upset!!
I am experiencing a situation with a very controlling man who is sending mixed signals about whether he even wants to be with me or not. I’m really hoping to read more of this as I need help in understanding and knowing what to do.