by Brandon Martin
Hey Brandon Martin here, and I'm about to share with you four powerful secrets to getting the kind of love, respect and appreciation you deserve from a man that most women will never know.
As you might know, I've shared my secrets with thousands of women around the world about how men think, why they do things like pull away or shut down… and what to do to spark deep levels of love and attraction, affection, and commitment.
What I've learn after coaching everyone from college students to high profile rock stars is that no matter what walk of life you're from, men can end up causing a lot of pain and frustration if you don't handle them properly… That is to say when you're with a man who stops appreciating you and starts acting like a jackass.
That's about the time that most women give up and lose at love and start asking the question “what am I doing so wrong?”
If you're like the many women I've coached over the years, you've experienced this.
But fortunately I have really good news for you today.
After years of investigating relationship dynamics and meeting with experts on male psychology from around the world, I've found that in 99.9% of cases there is actually A LOT you can do to turn around a bad situation with a man and get more love, affection and intimacy from your man than you thought possible and create an amazing relationship if you understand what you need to do.
It's actually quite simple to do it just by making a few simple adjustments to the way you approach men and relationships that most women unfortunately either never see or completely overlook.
Men start acting like jackasses for specific reasons, and if you understand these reasons and make efforts to change things, you'll get the love and admiration you've always wanted from men.
1. Men Experience Love And Relationships Differently Than Women
After spending years coaching many different women, I started noticing a problem that women shared with each other.
It was a mistake that was leading men to feel misunderstood, unappreciated and frustrated, which causes them to pull away, lose attraction and even fall out of love… and inevitably start acting like a jackass.
I found one very interesting little mistake most women make with men and they never realize they're doing it…. and I'm willing to bet you are doing it too.
The good news is if you simply STOP this mistake you can fix and even REVERSE the direction a relationship is heading and see INSTANT changes in his energy towards you.
What is the mistake?
Most women tend to automatically assume that men think about and experience love, attraction and relationships the same way women do.
Here's what I mean.
Women tend to value things like openess, affection, intimacy, sharing, trust, commitment and security in a relationship.
These are all fantastic things. The problem is men tend to value equally beautiful things that are different and have much different needs.
A few things that men tend to value (on a list of hundreds) are things like unpredictability, independence, respect and challenge.
This (helps) explains the male fascination with fast cars, football and video games…
Do you see a pattern here?
Men experience love in a much different and get into relationship with much different expectations than women.
Consciously or unconsciously, men expect a partner who is unpredictable, independent, who they respect and who will challenge them.
When men end up unfulfilled, things start to unravel and then you see guys not returning your phone calls, playing too much video games and being a general jerk.
But you must understand that this happens because women are making the wrong assumptions about how men “should” be… not how they actually are.
Men and women are OPPOSITES, just like a “yin yang”… two opposites that complete each other, and if you don't understand this, you'll run into many problems with men losing interest, respect and commitment.
Men get into relationships for much different reasons and have much different wants and needs.
Why is it so important to understand this?
Because if you don't understand and are fulfilling what men need at their core, you're going to find guys pulling away, shutting down and losing interest.
You just need to learn how to properly challenge a man, be unpredictable, and learn what causes a man to RESPECT a woman.
2. Why Men Lose Attraction And Fall Out Of Love
The pivital question that I get asked all the time is “Brandon, why do men get into relationship and then lose interest?”
The other question I get is “What can I do about it?”
The fact is that in almost every case, it's 100% possible to stop a man from losing interest and start making him feel deep amounts of love, respect and attraction for you.
The fact is there are many reason why a man can lose interest (and I don't have enough time today to get into them all), but I'd like to talk about what I consider to be one of the BIGGEST reason for this happening.
The big problem that most women have is that they simply don
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